Across animal types men typically initiate mating, while ladies opt to accept or reject those improvements.

Although we share this prototypical mating arrangement along with other animals, it is a bit more nuanced with us people.

Guys are anticipated to result in the overt very first move like saying hello, striking up a discussion, asking a girl away on a night out together, etc. But ladies in reality typically initiate this contact by subtly providing cues that such contact is welcome.